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		<title>Bad Dreams</title>
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Bad Dreams (1988)
IMDB rating: 4.90
Plot: In the mid-&#8217;70s, a cult group called Unity Field commits mass suicide, but a young girl survives. After being in a coma for thirteen years she wakes up in a psyche ward, not remembering the incident. The psychiatrist tries to help her remember, but she begins seeing the leader of [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center"><img src="" alt="Bad Dreams" /><br /><strong>Bad Dreams (1988)</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 4.90</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>In the mid-&#8217;70s, a cult group called Unity Field commits mass suicide, but a young girl survives. After being in a coma for thirteen years she wakes up in a psyche ward, not remembering the incident. The psychiatrist tries to help her remember, but she begins seeing the leader of the cult talking to her from the grave, and the other members of her therapy group begin to commit suicide around her. Or is it suicide?</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Fleming Andrew</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Abbott Bruce,Lynch Richard,Cameron Dean,Yulin Harris,Clough John Scott,Giambalvo Louis,Richardson Sy,Kronen Ben,Horror,Thriller,</p>
<p>which of these two men should i choose?<br />
					1) My ex (relationship of around 3 years)- handsome, very loving, no past flings,we had physical r&#8217;ship which is fantastic,ready for marriage, talked to parents(They r not yet fully convinced),financially weaker than me,not very smart and confident,working at nominal position,very simple and plain, dying to get me back (not aware of my new r&#8217;ship,though skeptical)<br />
2)My current Boyfriend- My best friend for last 4and a half years.we know each other inside out, knows about my ex and the intensity of our r&#8217;ship,very smart and confident, loves me as the angel who changed his life, had 2-3 flings in the past tat i was always aware of,adored by my elder sis,i&#8217;m liked by his family,accepted me as their daughter in law,financially and socially well,works at 4 times the salary of my ex, knows all my fantasies and shares my dreams</p>
<p>NOTE- My family is against intercaste marriage.both are from diff castes.family values Govt jobs,my father a high profile officer.both are in private jobs.I miss my ex, feel bad for the good times we had,feel guilty to cause him this pain,want him to come out of me and move on,but not sure if i&#8217;ll b happy with my new BF who is practical in approach but loves me.</p>
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				The one that u love and that makes u happy whenever u talk or see him ^&#8230;&#8230;..^<br />
				Jon | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				wow, your really messed up if this is ur way of thinking. i mean really? U cant pick a guy based on what he has, or who he is, what your parents want. U have to pick the one u love, the one u can grow old with. If ur looking for money and status then visit www.establishedmen.com<br />
				GuGuGaGa | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				If you leave the one you love for the one you like, the one you like will leave you for the one they love&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
				emilyj85 | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				Definitely guy #2. The first guy seems like he is a step down from you. you dont want to be with someone just because THEY really want you back. The second guy sounds like a true catch! Plus he is so close to you on a friend level, and that is the building block of a functional, happy relationship. I say go with dude #2 hands down, girlie! woo!<br />
				SwissMiss | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				It sounds like your first bf loves you too, but he loved you first.<br />
You said you want him him to come out of you and move on.<br />
So you want him to move on.<br />
So that is your answer.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not sure you&#8217;ll be happy with the new bf and money and everything else, then you see the dilemma!  You made this dilemma.  Sometimes the love is the best thing.  Some people love money, and lose each other.  You are going to make one of them sad for sure.  Maybe both?</p>
<p>The first guy is not practical?  Usually the poor guys are.</p>
<p>Flings are bad, if you mean he had one while in a relationship.  Very bad.  Flings + big money = I am important!  I mean self important.</p>
<p>Choose wisely!<br />
				ekto s | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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Pacifier, The (2005)
IMDB rating: 5.20
Plot: The film is the story of an undercover agent who, after failing to protect an important government scientist, learns the man&#8217;s family is in danger. In an effort to redeem himself, he agrees to take care of the man&#8217;s children only to discover that child care is his toughest mission [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 5.20</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>The film is the story of an undercover agent who, after failing to protect an important government scientist, learns the man&#8217;s family is in danger. In an effort to redeem himself, he agrees to take care of the man&#8217;s children only to discover that child care is his toughest mission yet.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Shankman Adam</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Diesel Vin,Thieriot Max,Potter Chris,Garrett Brad,Hoover Kegan,Hoover Logan,Vink Bo,Vink Luke,Donovan Tate,Thompson Scott,Comedy,Family,Action,Thriller,</p>
<p>5 month old can&#39;t sleep without a pacifier?<br />
					My 5 month old daughter recently started sleeping in her crib at night and i find myself going in 6-10 times a night to put her pacifier back in for her because she wakes up screaming. I tried to let her cry herself back to sleep for 15 Min&#8217;s and her screaming just escalated, once she got her soother she was out like a light. My sleep is deeply affected by this and I don&#8217;t know what to do.</p>
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				they have those things that clip on to their shirt and they can usually put it in themselves. I wouldn&#8217;t worry about it. Call your pediatrician if you want a diff answer.<br />
				Tiffany | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				you can buy soother savers, they are safe clips that you can attach to babies clothes without the risk of them getting tangled up, it won&#8217;t be long until she will be able to find it in her crib herself x<br />
				Faiths mummy &amp;amp; Grace on board! | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				First of all, I&#8217;m from the U.K so the only thing we call a &quot;pacifier&quot; is a VERY powerful series of handgun haha, so this question tickled me quite a bit. But after a split second realization, I now know what you mean lol.</p>
<p>You have 2 choices really. Either subtly make her lose interest in it over the week (give her something cool, new and interesting every time she wants her dummy or play hardball. Let her know that it;s gone and no amount of crying is going to replace it, at 5 months she will learn to adapt very quickly.</p>
<p>I know it must be hard for you because it&#8217;s your fragile, unfathomably precious infant but you it;s in your best interest (and hers) to just break this before it becomes an issue. My mother tells me that when I was a child I didn&#8217;t want to start a sippy cup but she played hardball and after a day or 2 I embraced the change. So this type of issue is probably extremely commonplace.</p>
<p>Good luck and remember that infants of all species are capable of rapid adaption.<br />
				grogglugger | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				lol<br />
When I first read the question, I thought you were asking about a 5 YEAR old daughter!  I was going to tell you to throw the &amp;$@ thing away!</p>
<p>Yes, you have certainly earned a night&#8217;s sleep by five months!  Try this if you can stand it:  If you KNOW that she&#8217;s not hungry or needs to be changed, then just swaddle her up and let her cry.  If it doesn&#8217;t work, what have you lost?<br />
				Scott | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				Some kids really rely on those (mine did), and ya know what - its ok - she will give it up later - but right now you should just worry about her being comforted and &quot;you getting sleep&quot;.  Maybe you should sleep closer to her &quot;just for now&quot;.  Sorry I don&#8217;t have anything better to say.  Good luck.<br />
				S A | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				Welcome to the joys of Motherhood.  It will get better.  My daughter used a pacifier too and I also found that keeping some soothing lullaby music on very low volume helped her at times too.<br />
				goldengirl | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				My son was a binky user and we had a very hard time getting rid of it. we also used a binky clip to keep his binky close so he could find it and put it back in himself. I feel your pain, My son was almost 3 before we found all of the Bink&#8217;s he had hidden throughout the house so we could finally break him from the habit.<br />
				expecting baby 3 | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				My 5 month old is the same way.  She gets her pacifier in her crib and in the car (she hates the carseat).  If it falls out in the carseat, she *sometimes* can put it back in.</p>
<p>But as for in the crib, once it falls out, there&#8217;s no going back in, unless I do it for her.</p>
<p>Now mind you, I&#8217;ve watched her as she&#8217;s falling asleep in her crib.  When she&#8217;s juuust on the brink of going to sleep, she actually spits the pacifier out.  I&#8217;ve tried putting it back in but she clamps her lips shut.</p>
<p>She gets up once through the night, but that&#8217;s unrelated to the pacifier, she just wants to feed.</p>
<p>Maybe when she wakes up, it&#8217;s out of hunger and not for the pacifier?  Sure, once it&#8217;s back in her mouth she&#8217;s okay, but try feeding her and see how often you&#8217;re up with her after that.<br />
				Bay Bomber   **Carson&#39;s Mumm | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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				This happened to me but by 6 or 7 months they can find it and put it in themselves.  I even turn my babies the wrong way in my sleep and she turns it around the right way herself, its too funny!<br />
				Tink | Feb 05, 2010</p>
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Seed (2007)
IMDB rating: 2.40
Plot: After a seemingly undead man is bound and buried alive, he digs himself back to the surface and seeks bloody vengeance on those who caused him his suffering.




Directors: Boll Uwe
 Actors: Pare Michael,Sanderson Will,Moeller Ralf,Jackson Andrew,Turner Brad,Mitchell Phillip,Dopud Mike,Sampson John,Leitso Tyron,Eklund Michael,Hainsworth John,Walker Vincent,Stewart William &#8216;Big Sleeps&#8217;,Horror,Thriller,
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<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 2.40</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>After a seemingly undead man is bound and buried alive, he digs himself back to the surface and seeks bloody vengeance on those who caused him his suffering.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Boll Uwe</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Pare Michael,Sanderson Will,Moeller Ralf,Jackson Andrew,Turner Brad,Mitchell Phillip,Dopud Mike,Sampson John,Leitso Tyron,Eklund Michael,Hainsworth John,Walker Vincent,Stewart William &#8216;Big Sleeps&#8217;,Horror,Thriller,</p>
<p>My &#39;tiel bites himself, vet has given up, help?<br />
					I used to have 2 &#8216;tiels, Ryu and Ete. We fed them pellets recommended by our veterinarian and greens. When they were about 2 Ryu started biting at his back, screaming while he was doing it. He would dig the feathers out and make his back bleed. He&#8217;s been tested for mites and parasites, all negative. We&#8217;ve had to put a bubble collar around his neck. About a year ago we gave Ete back to the breeder because he was becoming a nuisance to Ryu and more and more unfriendly to us. We thought the stress of Ete might have caused Ryu to bite himself so we tried taking the collar off then. He was fine for a few days then he started up again and we had to put it back on. When we gave Ete back we also tried switching Ryu onto seeds, because he wasn&#8217;t eating the pellets as much and never really liked the greens. With his bubble collar on he can still reach his back but he won&#8217;t bite it. He grooms himself normally. Our vet has given up, saying it&#8217;s probably a compulsion. Ryu is 4, almost 5 now and I&#8217;d hate him to have to wear the bubble collar for the rest of his life.</p>
<p>I saw someone with a similar problem and the reasons suggested to them were parasites, allergies, skin infection, and malnutrition. He</p>
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Lost City, The (2005)
IMDB rating: 6.90
Plot: In Havana, Cuba in the late 1950&#8217;s, a wealthy family, one of whose sons is a prominent nightclub owner, is caught in the violent transition from the oppressive regime of Batista to the Marxist government of Fidel Castro. Castro&#8217;s regime ultimately leads the nightclub owner to flee to New [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 6.90</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>In Havana, Cuba in the late 1950&#8217;s, a wealthy family, one of whose sons is a prominent nightclub owner, is caught in the violent transition from the oppressive regime of Batista to the Marxist government of Fidel Castro. Castro&#8217;s regime ultimately leads the nightclub owner to flee to New York.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Garcia Andy</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Garcia Andy,Milian Tomas,Bradford Richard,Carbonell Nestor,Murciano Enrique,Hoffman Dustin,Murray Bill,Bauer Steven,Fernandez Juan,Garcia Jsu,Marquez William,Mechoso Julio Oscar,Drama,</p>
<p>Soccer/ Football, I don&#39;t get the point. Help a girl out!?<br />
					Help me understand why my husband is in to soccer/ football. He supports a team in the city we live in, Eindhoven, the Netherlands. The team is PSV. I don&#8217;t understand how he can support a team that is constantly changing, different players from different cities and different countries. Almost all of the players are foreign. Actually from a different county.</p>
<p>I totally get college basketball, football, enz&#8230; where the players are really going to a certain school and they are really representing that school, but I get lost when a team is formed on the basis of money purchasing the best player they can afford. And then, these people playing, not for the representation of a city or a club, but for money, we are supposed to support? Because they are paid to wear the shirt of our team?</p>
<p>I just really don&#8217;t get it. If they were all players from the city I live in, then I get it. But they aren&#8217;t. Half of them don&#8217;t even speak the language.</p>
<p>If I were to support this team, what for?</p>
<p>Sorry, I&#8217;m just a girl and I am already not too interested. But this fact makes it even more difficult for me to share the enthusiasm of my husband.</p>
<p>What am I not seeing that he does? What am I missing out on?</p>
<p>Thanks guys for all your answers. <img src='http://betweenlovegoodbye.gibcosta.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> <br />
I guess as a woman I just look for a little more meaning in what I support. To me, a club is nothing but money and they stand for nothing but money.  Players, are the slaves of this club.</p>
<p>But the first answer here has said what I already thought. Men really are just that simple. Name is everything. Who cares who represents it or how much money is paid for it. They are paid to represent a name. Thus they support it. I give thumbs up for this answer, yet I still don&#8217;t get it. </p>
<p>I guess all men need to hear is that their &quot;name&quot; did well and they feel good.  It doesn&#8217;t matter how they got there.</p>
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				Your assumption is really wrong. It&#8217;s not about the players or where they are from. It&#8217;s about the club. Players come and go. But the club remains who they are and what they represent. PSV represents Eindhoven. Your husband takes pride in supporting the club. Not the players.<br />
				jyoti | Feb 06, 2010</p>
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				It&#8217;s about where the team plays their home games. It&#8217;s a building the players call home, even if it&#8217;s for just 3 hours or so at a time. They&#8217;ll move to a city and become a member of the community, playing for the fans of that city. It&#8217;s the devotion of the players to you as a fan (even if it&#8217;s for a short period of time) that keeps the fans loyal to a team.<br />
There&#8217;s also an excitement of winning a championship that can only be achieved when you follow a team throughout the entire journey.<br />
				Ryan B | Feb 06, 2010</p>
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This Christmas (2007)
IMDB rating: 5.00
Plot: A Christmastime drama centered around the Whitfield family&#8217;s first holiday together in four years.




Directors: Whitmore II Preston A.
 Actors: Lindo Delroy,Elba Idris,Brown Chris,Robinson Keith,Alonso Laz,Short Columbus,Phifer Mekhi,Banner David,Harris Ricky,Comedy,Drama,Romance,
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<p style="text-align:center"><img src="" alt="This Christmas" /><br /><strong>This Christmas (2007)</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 5.00</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>A Christmastime drama centered around the Whitfield family&#8217;s first holiday together in four years.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Whitmore II Preston A.</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Lindo Delroy,Elba Idris,Brown Chris,Robinson Keith,Alonso Laz,Short Columbus,Phifer Mekhi,Banner David,Harris Ricky,Comedy,Drama,Romance,</p>
<p>I can&#39;t tell if there will be a future with us&#8230; can you help?<br />
					wWe met over christmas break and got to know eachother. then at the end of christmas break i had to go back to college 4 hours away and i asked him what he wanted and what he thought about us and he said that it was hard to start a relationship when i had to leave, which i completely understand and respect. we have texted almost everyday but the conversations are only like 5-10 mins and there is not much depth to them. he says that he wants to see me but never acts like it and i dont like feeling like i am being led on. i broke down one day and told him that i have been trying to keep this &quot;friendship&quot; or whatever going but i just dont feel like it was working. because i was the one that was texting him first and stuff. well after that he started texting me more but there still is absolutely no sign of commitment at all at least i havn&#8217;t seen it. maybe it is my insecurities but i mean i dont know how else to try or even if i should anymore&#8230; I really really really like him but sometimes i feel like i might be annoying him&#8230; and also i want him to get to know me too i feel like i know alot more about him than he does me and that also makes me feel like he doesn&#8217;t care&#8230; but my thoughts are why would he even almost try if he didn&#8217;t think that there could be a future&#8230; i dont know how to deal with this PLEASE HELP!!</p>
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		<title>The 39 Steps</title>
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IMDB rating: 6.60
Plot: A remake of Alfred Hitchcock&#8217;s film of the same name. A man meets a woman and goes home with her, only to find her murdered. When he finds out that she was a secret agent and that he&#8217;s now mixed up in the matter, he must try to solve [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center"><img src="" alt="The 39 Steps" /><br /><strong>The 39 Steps (1959)</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 6.60</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>A remake of Alfred Hitchcock&#8217;s film of the same name. A man meets a woman and goes home with her, only to find her murdered. When he finds out that she was a secret agent and that he&#8217;s now mixed up in the matter, he must try to solve the mystery.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Thomas Ralph</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>More Kenneth,Jones Barry,Beckwith Reginald,Goodliffe Michael,Hayter James,Lamont Duncan,Clark Jameson,Cruickshank Andrew,Dwyer Leslie,James Sid,Thriller,Drama,</p>
<p>What is the probability that a bridge hand contains exactly 5 hearts ?<br />
					A bridge hand contains 13 cards.</p>
<p>I tried to find the total number of bridge hands that contain exactly five hearts by doing this</p>
<p>
Select the suit (Hearts)</p>
<p>{4 choose 1}  </p>
<p>Select the cards from the set of all Hearts  (13 cards in a suit select five of them)</p>
<p>{ 13 choose 5}</p>
<p>Choose a non-heart suit (clubs, diamonds, spades)</p>
<p>{4 choose 3}<br />
Then select the other cards from all the other suits {13 * 3 = 39 non-heart cards}</p>
<p>{39 choose 8}</p>
<p>I choose 8 to get a full bridge hand.</p>
<p>So my answer is </p>
<p>{ 4 C 1} * {13 C 5} * {4 C 3} * {39 C 8}</p>
<p>To get the probability I divide by </p>
<p>{52 C 13}</p>
<p>
Are these steps correct or am I missing or misapplying something ?<br />
I have to get rid of the {4 choose 3}.</p>
<p>ok.<br />
If I get rid of the {4 choose 3} it makes sense for both the probability and the number of bridge hands.<br />
Thanks Samwise!</p>
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			You&#8217;re going to get a probability that is exactly 16 times too large.</p>
<p>The reason is the multiplications by 4C1 and 4C3. In this problem, there&#8217;s no question of selecting suits at all. Their effect on the calculations is represented by the division of the deck into hearts and non-hearts.</p>
<p>There are 13 hearts, of which we want 5.<br />
There are 39 non-hearts, of which we want 8.</p>
<p>So the probability is simply<br />
13C5 * 39C8 / 52C13<br />
which you can obviously calculate, so I&#8217;ll leave that to you.</p>
<p>			 | Feb 01, 2010</p>
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		<title>007 Goldfinger</title>
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IMDB rating: 7.80
Plot: The powerful tycoon Auric Goldfinger (Gert Frobe) has initiated &#8220;Operation Grand Slam,&#8221; a cataclysmic scheme to raid Fort Knox and obliterate the world economy. James Bond, armed with his specially equipped Aston Martin (its accessory package includes built-in machine guns, a smoke screen and an ejector seat), must stop the [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center"><img src="" alt="007 Goldfinger" /><br /><strong>007 Goldfinger (1964)</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 7.80</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>The powerful tycoon Auric Goldfinger (Gert Frobe) has initiated &#8220;Operation Grand Slam,&#8221; a cataclysmic scheme to raid Fort Knox and obliterate the world economy. James Bond, armed with his specially equipped Aston Martin (its accessory package includes built-in machine guns, a smoke screen and an ejector seat), must stop the plan by overcoming several outrageous adversaries. First there&#8217;s Oddjob (Harold Sakata), the mute servant who kills at the toss of a lethal hat; next, the beautiful Jill Masterson (Shirley Eaton), who gives new meaning to the phrase &#8220;golden girl&#8221;; and finally, sexy pilot Pussy Galore (Honor Blackman), whose romantic feelings for Bond complicate her involvement in Goldfinger&#8217;s high-flying scheme.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Hamilton Guy</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Connery Sean,Benson Martin,Lee Bernard,Frobe Gert,Sakata Harold,Linder Cec,Willis Austin,Nagy Bill,Mellinger Michael,Cranwell Peter,Thriller,Adventure,Action,</p>
<p>What was your Favorite James Bond Car?<br />
					Aston Martin DB5 (Goldfinger 1964, Thunderball 1965)</p>
<p>Toyota 2000 GT (You Only Live Twice 1967)</p>
<p>Mustang Mach 1 (Diamonds Are Forever 1971)</p>
<p>Lotus Espirit S1 (Spy Who Loved Me 1977)</p>
<p>Aston Martin V8 Volante/Vantage (Living Daylights 1987)</p>
<p>BMW Z8 (World Is Not Enough 1999)</p>
<p>Aston Martin V-12 Vanquish (Die Another Day 2002)</p>
<p>Aston Martin DBS (Casino Royale 2006)</p>
<p>http://commanderbond.net/article/2438</p>
<p>http://www.qv500.com/bondlotusesprit.php </p>
<p>http://www.astonmartins.com/v8/007_v8.ht m</p>
<p>http://www.aston-martin-archives.com/jam es-bond-cars.html</p>
<p>http://www.mi6.co.uk/sections/articles/b ond_21_aston_martin_dbs_first_look.php3? t=bond21&amp;s=bond21<br />
The Aston Martin DB5 starred in 5 Bond films:<br />
Goldfinger, Thunderball, Goldeneye, Tomorrow Never Dies and Casino Royale.</p>
<p>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUG1GexVz 2k</p>
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			Definitely the Aston Martin DB5.  Classiest sports car ever made.  I must say I liked the car that became a submarine (was it the Lotus? I think so).  But if I had to pick one, it&#8217;d be the DB5.  The newer Aston Martin is probably faster, better in most ways, but not as classy.</p>
<p>			Mr. Knowitall | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				The Oscar Mayer wienermobile.<br />
				Raymond K OFFICIAL | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				Lotus Espirit S1<br />
				tercentenary98 | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				aston martin goldfinger<br />
				jeremy h | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				Aston Martin DB5 (which was a DB 3 in the original novel).<br />
				Bryce | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				Aston Martin Vanquish<br />
				thequeenreigns | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				No doubt, the Aston Martin from Goldfinger.<br />
				Alex Mahone&#39;s Favorite Agent | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				The Lotus Formula 3 from the unofficial Bond film Casino Royale (1967)<br />
				jgvale_mk | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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				BMW 780 (Tomorrow Never Dies 1997) or Aston Martin V-12 Vanquish (Die Another Day 2002<br />
				cashville_con | Aug 24, 2007</p>
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		<title>2001 Maniacs</title>
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IMDB rating: 5.40
Plot: Three college slackers, Anderson Lee, Cory Jones and Nelson Elliot, plan a good time away from their college by heading out to Daytona Beach for Spring Break. But along they way, they get detoured into the small, off-the-map, town of Pleasant Valley, Georgia, where they, along with three drifters, Joey, [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 5.40</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>Three college slackers, Anderson Lee, Cory Jones and Nelson Elliot, plan a good time away from their college by heading out to Daytona Beach for Spring Break. But along they way, they get detoured into the small, off-the-map, town of Pleasant Valley, Georgia, where they, along with three drifters, Joey, Kat and Ricky, and biker Malcolm and his girlfriend Leah, are welcomed as guests of honor by the cheerful but sinister-looking Mayor Buckman for the annual Pleasant Valley Guts and Glory Festival. Unknown to the eight unsuspecting Northerners, Mayor Buckman and the residents have more in store where they plan to use the festival as a blood ritual by separating the guests and killing them off one-by-one in ultra-gory fashion.</p>
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<p style="text-align:left"><a href="http://moviesshop.us/" target="_blank">look at</a></p>
<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Sullivan Tim</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Englund Robert,Andrews Giuseppe,Gillespie Jay,Edrington Dylan,Carey Matthew,Stormare Peter,Gross Brian,Lee Mushond,McCarthy Brendan,Robitel Adam,Comedy,Horror,</p>
<p>2001 maniacs download?<br />
					i want to download 2001 maniacs<br />
can you give me link for just a simple free download of it, no credit card crap<br />
or if you have  a download on your computer could you email it to me<br />
or soemthing</p>
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IMDB rating: 6.60
Plot: When 13 year old Maria Merryweather&#8217;s father dies, leaving her orphaned and homeless, she is forced to leave her luxurious London life to go and live with Sir Benjamin, an eccentric uncle she didn&#8217;t know she had, at the mysterious Moonacre Manor. Soon Maria finds herself in a [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 6.60</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>When 13 year old Maria Merryweather&#8217;s father dies, leaving her orphaned and homeless, she is forced to leave her luxurious London life to go and live with Sir Benjamin, an eccentric uncle she didn&#8217;t know she had, at the mysterious Moonacre Manor. Soon Maria finds herself in a crumbling moonlit world torn apart by the hatred of an ancient feud with the dark and sinister De Noir family. Maria discovers that she is the last Moon Princess and, guided by an unlikely mix of allies, she must overcome her family&#8217;s pride in order to unearth the secrets of the past before the 5000th moon rises and Moonacre disappears into the sea forever.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Csupo Gabor</div>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong> Actors: </strong>Gruffudd Ioan,Curry Tim,Prew Augustus,Linden Andy,Webber Michael,Barabas Kis Zoltan,Mendel George,Nagy Sandor Istvan,Simor Oliver,Vizes Ferenc,Adventure,Family,Fantasy,Romance,</p>
<p>what kind of dog of wrolf in the secret of moonacre?</p>
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			that was a book first! and HE IS A LION!!!!!<br />
in the book. stupid movie ppl.. messed it up..<br />
i didn&#8217;t see the movie, as i love the book far too much. call it an obsession,. but i loved it- the little white horse, the book is titled.<br />
in said book, there is no 500 full moon( or whatever it was) deadline, just a girl wanting to right some wrongs. and wrolf was and always will be, a lion.<br />
and he is amazing, just like serena the hare. and wiggins, and dewdrop( is that her pony;s name.. i do believe i have forgotton. must go re-read book!)</p>
<p>			Hedgi | Jun 28, 2009</p>
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Plot: The teenage DJ is observing his neighbor Nebbercracker on the other side of their street in the suburb that destroys tricycles of children that trespass his lawn. When DJ&#8217;s parents travel on the eve of Halloween and the abusive nanny Zee stays with him, he calls his clumsy best friend [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left"><strong>IMDB rating:</strong> 6.90</p>
<p style="text-align:left"><strong>Plot: </strong>The teenage DJ is observing his neighbor Nebbercracker on the other side of their street in the suburb that destroys tricycles of children that trespass his lawn. When DJ&#8217;s parents travel on the eve of Halloween and the abusive nanny Zee stays with him, he calls his clumsy best friend Chowder to play basketball. But when the ball falls in Nebbercracker&#8217;s lawn, the old man has a siege, and sooner they find that the house is a monster. Later the boys rescue the smart Jenny from the house and the trio unsuccessfully tries to convince the babysitter, her boyfriend Bones and two police officers that the haunted house is a monster, but nobody believes on them. The teenagers ask their video-game addicted acquaintance Skull how to destroy the house, and they disclose its secret on the Halloween night.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left"><strong>Directors:</strong> Kenan Gil</div>
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<p>unsupportive husband during pregnancy?<br />
					My husband and I tried for a while to get pregnant with our first together(my 2nd).  To the point where we were starting to get a bit worried about things, but by the Grace of God I did end up pregnant!  He was really great the first 2-3 months, and now all of the sudden the past couple months he&#8217;s turned into some kinda selfish monster.  I do talk to him and communicate how I&#8217;m feeling.  I&#8217;ve been having problems with swelling and pain in my feet and legs from early on. I&#8217;m 20 weeks now.  I also have a history of back problems due to sports when I was younger.  I am in my late 20s he is in his early 30s.  It&#8217;s all I can do to get him to help me out at home and with other things.  Now I&#8217;m being told, well you aren&#8217;t as fragile as you wanna think you are.  I work 6 days a week he works 4, I don&#8217;t get much time to rest and relax with my works schedule and an almost 5 year old.  All he does is grip and complain anytime I ask him to do something, which isn&#8217;t much, things like doing dishes, taking out trash, feeding dogs, and clean out cat litter.  That&#8217;s all I ask him to do.  Well he does it once every couple weeks if I&#8217;m lucky.  He complains that I don&#8217;t keep the house clean, and housework and laundry are behind.  Then comes to bed at 4 or 5 in the morning, no he doesn&#8217;t work nights, and wants to sleep all day only to get up and play his computer and games all day.  I&#8217;m a tired person, borderline anemic, which thankfully it&#8217;s been fine, but I have days I&#8217;m super tired more so then I was not pregnant.  When he comes to bed at that time in the morning it wakes me up b/c he is not careful not to wake me, and loud as can be.  Being a mommy already I&#8217;m a light sleeper.  And now being pregnant it&#8217;s takes almost an hour for me to get comfortable enough to fall asleep so when I get woke up I&#8217;m lucky if I fall back to sleep.  I get up at 8 every morning take my child to pre school/day care.  I have a couple hours to rest and relax and be to work till 5pm.  Then I get off work, soon as I walk in the door mommy I need this honey I need that.  Now with my child I can let it slide cause there&#8217;s only so much a 5 year old can do for themselves, but a 32 year old man, he won&#8217;t cook for himself or pick up after himself.  When I ask him to rub my feet he just complains and I&#8217;m lucky if he does it, and on top of this I still usually have to do the few little things I ask him to do.  I&#8217;ve tried talking and he just gets defensive and it causes a fight.  I have BP problems while pregnant and with my first I was on bed rest the last two months, I&#8217;m trying to keep from that happeneing again, but the way it looks I have maybe a month left before I&#8217;m put on bed rest.  What else can I do, I can&#8217;t just let my house get nasty. Oh and the best thing this morning when he came in to bed and woke me up I was told &#8216;just close your eyes and fall back to sleep it&#8217;s not that hard.&quot; argh.<br />
Thanks, glad I&#8217;m not the only one. He didn&#8217;t use to be like this.  I have tried to tell him I need help, I mean begged and pleaded, he&#8217;d be good for a day.  Don&#8217;t worry I don&#8217;t clean out the litter all the time, I&#8217;ve done it maybe three times with gloves on then scrubbed my hands afterwards. I know what the problems are with that <img src='http://betweenlovegoodbye.gibcosta.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;m just exhausted all the time.  I try to be understanding that this is a big change for him, he&#8217;s never had a child to care for, I&#8217;m the one my daughter always wants anyway.  My first pregnancy even with the high BP was very stress free. Her father was really great, and is still a great father.   My husband says when the baby gets here he&#8217;ll help, but I believe it when I see it.  When I say something to his mom or sister trying to get them to talk to him they just make excuses for him. He&#8217;s always had them to take care of him, and doesn&#8217;t know how to be a man on his own.</p>
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				Pregnant or not, he works 4 days you work 6. He SHOULD do the housework without complaint. Do not change the cat litter, as it is not good for the baby and can potentially harm them. &#8212;Do a google search and show him. Tell him if he is unwilling to help with chores around the house (it is his house too and needs to help clean it regardless if you are pregnant) then he can pay for a maid to come in and do it for him.<br />
				Dalton&#39;s Mommy &amp;amp; Kaiah due 2 | Feb 02, 2010</p>
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				Wow.  What a mess.  And the problem is, if he&#8217;s like this when you&#8217;re pregnant, what kind of hell are you in for once the baby comes?  He thinks life is hard now?  Ha ha hah.  Wait until he sees what 3 weeks of sleep-deprivation does to someone.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what to tell you.  If you&#8217;ve stated your case and made your points and he still insists on being a dick, I don&#8217;t know what other cause of action you have other than a marriage counselor or ultimatums or something.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s completely useless to you as he is right now.  I don&#8217;t know if it will be helpful, but is there someone else you can stay with?  Really, anything to get you out of that terrible environment.<br />
				shadowtalker1 | Feb 02, 2010</p>
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				If you figure out how to get your husband to help out more&#8230;please tell me your secret.  LOL!  Seriously, I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re alone here.  Just talk to your husband and tell him your feelings.  Hopefully he will be more considerate as you get further along in your pregnancy.  I know that for me, now that I am 38.5 weeks and pretty miserable, and I also work full-time + and have a 2 year old, my hubby has started to help out more.  It does take me asking him over and over.  We still argue&#8230;I hate nagging, but it seems to be the only way to get through sometimes.  My husband stays up late too and I have to get up ~ 6:45.  No fun at all!  Then I don&#8217;t get home until 6 PM and have to cook dinner, feed toddler, and clean up.  The cycle never ends&#8230;  Just stay strong and good luck.<br />
				ahill_hokie | Feb 02, 2010</p>
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				u have a typical man on ur hands. Dont make him dinner and dont pick up after him. only pick up after u and ur daughter. tell him your not broken or fragile so u do it!!! My bf was the same way. he wld be like hey big large pregnant lady i know your exhausted but do wanna get up 3 hrs earlier then u normally would to make my lunch?! i was like umm HELL NO!!! and so he did it himself. My bf never rubbed my back or anything either. Some men love to pamper there pregnant women!!  iwish I would have met one of these. But some men don&#8217;t understand. He will once that baby is born. He will see what childbirth and carrying and growing a human being is allll about. My bf did. He couldnt believe how terrible he was to me. We are pregnant again and everything is different. He comes home everyday from work and is like hey beautiful pregnant lady!! something he never did before!!<br />
				sweetpeakids | Feb 02, 2010</p>
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				If you think it&#8217;s bad now, wait until the baby is born. He will continue to stay up late while you try to sleep, the baby will wake up in the middle of the night, and I bet he will be a real peach then. </p>
<p>If this were me, I&#8217;d threaten to leave. Put your foot down and tell him to grow the *!@&amp;% up. It&#8217;s not all about him, he&#8217;s not 13 years old, this isn&#8217;t college anymore. He is NOT a typical man; no man I know behaves this way. Do you have friends or family you can turn to? Go on bedrest and your income will be cut severely - that ought to be a wake up call to him that you can&#8217;t do it all right now, at least not without his help.<br />
				HouseMom | Feb 02, 2010</p>
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				Have you asked him if there&#8217;s something he feels you&#8217;ve done wrong? Sometimes one little comment or gesture can be taken the wrong way and people get their feelings hurt then act like children and mistreat the people they love. So it could be something simple like that. Also, do what you feel you can do but if he&#8217;s not helping out then don&#8217;t do it for him. When I was pregnant with my first my husband was working a lot of hours, then he got laid off. He was depressed and tired and didn&#8217;t help out around the house. He wouldn&#8217;t even turn his clothes right side out when he got undressed! I started collapsing and having major dizzy spells that the doctor couldn&#8217;t explain. I was put on bedrest but still nothing got done. So I was still getting up and doing things (we also had his 5 year old daughter from his first marriage living with us who needed to be taken care of). Finally, I just stopped doing anything for him. I made sure his daughter and I had clean clothes, food, anything we needed, but he had to take care of himself. He finally caught on after I&#8217;d explained for what felt like the 100th time that I needed help and he started pitching in.</p>
<p>Good luck!<br />
				MeggiesMama | Feb 02, 2010</p>
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